Paid Sick Leave Matters: Confessions of a Recovered Waitress
by Madeline Shepherd, NCJW Legislative Aide
The year after I graduated from college I waited tables and worked in retail, just like my parents always hoped I would. Kidding! Truth be told, I had always envisioned going to law school but hesitated once it came time to send in a deposit. I hadn’t given much thought to the other options I had, and the commitment of so much time and money made me think twice. So after graduating Phi Beta Kappa, I donned an apron and slip-resistant shoes and got down to work.
I learned a great deal over the next few months working at a restaurant. My coworkers had mostly grown up in the area and still carried their high school rivalries. Some had gone to college and were waiting tables to subsidize their income from another job; others bounced from cook line to cook line in the area’s restaurant district and talked about going back to school. All of them were used to hardship, and faced it on a daily basis as they balanced taking care of family members, paying their bills, and seizing every opportunity to work a shift at our restaurant.





Different ages, different places. What unites them is how they died: by a gun.
For me and my husband, $11,000 would be a tremendous help. I am a recent law school graduate and barred attorney in Massachusetts with my DC bar pending. Shortly after I passed the bar, my husband, an auditor, was offered a position in Washington, DC. We made the decision to move even though I had not secured a job in the area. Although I am currently volunteering, my job search continues, and the thought of being denied equal pay because of my gender in 2013 is almost impossible to comprehend.
Imagine a room filled with advocates and members of Congress — so many the bill signing had to be moved from the White House to an auditorium nearby at the Department of the Interior. The audience hooted and hollered when the Vice President spoke about working with Representative John Conyers (D-MI) almost 20 years ago, when they envisioned and passed the original Violence Against Women Act in 1994.

More recently, the NCJW Women’s Forum has added an important supplementary component, and its head, Professor Daphne Hacker from the Faculty of Law, also spoke with us. The Forum meets on Fridays when hundreds of women come to the campus to listen and learn about a range of topics concerning women’s issues. Four students from the program joined us to discuss their own research and interests. Yifat, one of the students, came to the program after working as a lawyer because she wanted to better understand the issues facing her women clients. Professor Naveh closed the meeting and discussion with a D’var Torah about Purim and Queen Vashti’s role in the Purim story – “she stood up to the King and said no!”