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Women's Equality: The Fight Worth Fighting

by Lyndsey Pecker, NCJW Legislative Intern

My first task at my summer internship with NCJW was to familiarize myself with Title IX, in honor of its upcoming 40th anniversary on June 23, 2012. As I began to research this pivotal law — sorting through the thousands of pictures and articles celebrating women’s participation in collegiate sports — I realized the tremendous extent to which I take my ability to play sports for granted. I never believed that my gender could prevent me from participating in athletic events or that my childhood dream of playing sports at the university level could be stymied simply because of my sex. Today, for millions of women like me, life without Title IX is unthinkable. And it’s more than just sports.

Title IX goes well beyond women’s participation in athletics. Title IX is about guaranteeing equal opportunity for women. It has made it possible for a woman to get the health care she needs, to stand up for herself when she feels she isn’t being treated with the same respect as a male counterpart, and to reach the top of her field in whatever industry she chooses.

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NCJW Honorary Vice President Myra Farr (1915-2012)

On June 2, 2012, NCJW lost a great leader, matriarch and mentor, Myra Farr (97). Born April 25, 1915 in Maine, Myra moved to South Florida with her family at the age of 16, and in 1938 married her beloved Aaron Farr (deceased 2003). As did all new brides, Myra was gifted a membership in the Greater Miami Section of NCJW. She became, and remained for seven decades, a powerful, inspirational and valued leader in NCJW, serving as Section president (1949-51), National Vice President (1967-75), and then National Honorary Vice President (1975-2012). While NCJW was her treasured “home” for social justice, she was also a strong, wise leader and legendary fundraiser for the Greater Miami Jewish Federation, the Jewish Museum of Florida, Temple Beth Sholom of Miami Beach and the Miami Jewish Home for the Aged. 
 
NCJW Miami Section with Myra FarrMyra was pivotal in creating NCJW’s life membership program, as well as many of our programs and commitments in Israel, and for encouraging visionary, strategic advancement of NCJW locally and nationally. But most significantly, Myra, like NCJW, developed people. Over the more than 70 years of continuous and dedicated leadership in NCJW, Myra mentored many dozens of women, two of whom became national NCJW presidents: Nan Rich (1996-99) and I, Nancy Ratzan (2008-11). Myra’s mentorship was so intimate and impactful, that her mentees came to be known as “Myra’s daughters.” At her funeral, more than 25 of “Myra’s daughters,” spanning three generation, accompanied her casket. As one of her “daughters,” I delivered the following eulogy: 

“Myra taught us how to live long, meaningful lives that truly matter. Indeed, she lived so well that her life now continues through each of us who are privileged to be the living legacy of this most extraordinary woman.

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Justice, Justice Shall You Pursue

by Eleanor Levie

“Justice, justice shall you pursue” is a core religious obligation, so important that the word is repeated twice in that Torah passage from the book of Deuteronomy. So it was fitting that leaders from the National Council of Jewish Women were part of a select delegation from around the country that traveled to Washington, DC, on May 7 to address the current judicial vacancies crisis — a key barrier in the pursuit of justice in the US today.

Outside the White HouseAnd indeed, while in Washington, DC, we asked for justice twice: First, we urged President Obama, through Administration officials, to use the power of his bully pulpit to continue to raise the profile of this issue with the public and to accelerate the process of selecting new nominees to send to the Senate for confirmation.  Second, we met with our senators to decry foot-dragging, filibuster threats, and unprecedented Republican obstruction to the President’s pending nominees. The delays that result prevent our federal courts in keeping up with rising caseloads. These delays are bad for business, they costs billions of dollars, and they force individuals to wait far too long for their day in court.

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In Their Shoes

It was the shoes that got to me. The ripped up children’s shoes, coming apart at the seams, totally ruined. These little shoes sat on a make-shift altar in front of the steps of the Supreme Court — a centerpiece for a vigil into the night before the arguments in the Arizona v. United States immigration case. The shoes and a few other precious items — nail polish, a lipstick, a broken votive candle — were found in the desert, the passage between Mexico and the US. These relics spoke to the families who sacrificed everything (maybe their lives?) to reach a better life in the United States.

Shoes at altar in front of Supreme CourtAfter a group of men and women who had come from Arizona to witness the historic Supreme Court hearing had recited the rosary in Spanish, the altar was changed over for the Jewish community’s turn. Rabbi David Shneyer led us off with songs and psalms, followed by several speakers concerned about immigration. I spoke for NCJW and shared our proud history of service to the immigrant community dating back to the 19th century Port and Dock Service on Ellis Island. And I shared the stories I heard in Alabama recently as part of the We Belong Together women’s trip to meet with immigrant women suffering under the draconian Alabama immigration law, HB 56 — the harshest in the nation. I shared NCJW’s concern that if the Supreme Court didn’t act to throw out the Arizona law, many states would follow suit, putting into place inhumane and unjust laws aimed at driving immigrants out.

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It Takes a Woman

It famously has been stated that it takes a village to raise a child. Such a declaration emphasizes the power of community and a commitment to work together toward a common goal.  Last week, I had the honor of seeing this philosophy in action when I attended the White House Forum on Women & the Economy. For the better part of a day, leaders from the private sector, senior White House staff, members of the Cabinet, and the president himself participated in a thoughtful discussion about how women are faring in the US economy and what more needs to be done to ensure that women and girls across the United States have what they need to thrive. President Obama at Women & Economy Forum

As many of our nation’s most powerful leaders took turns at the podium, one message came across loud and clear: What’s good for women is good for the economy. Gene Sperling, Director of the White House National Economic Council, made this case when he asserted that one of our nation’s greatest competitive advantages is that we have more women in the workforce than do other nations. Karen Mills, Administrator of the United States Small Business Administration, agreed when she reminded us that it is women entrepreneurs who are driving the growth in small business around the US. And, Joe Eshecarria, CEO of Deloitte, made the business case for family-friendly policies when he affirmed that productivity increases when you allow employees the flexibility they need to meet both work and family obligations.

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Celebrating Women's History Month with Great Women Leaders

by Christine Stone, NCJW board director and Pennsylvania state policy advocacy chair

I was thrilled to join NCJW CEO Nancy K. Kaufman in representing NCJW at a reception celebrating Women’s History Month, hosted by Vice President Joe Biden and Dr. Jill Biden at the Naval Observatory on Monday, March 26, 2012. The reception, the first one held to commemorate Women’s History Month, recognized the accomplishments and contributions of women across the spectrum of American life, including academia and science, business and labor, philanthropy and advocacy, athletics and the arts, as well as the military and government.

When Nancy and I first arrived at the reception, White House Senior Advisor Valerie Jarrett warmly greeted us. We thanked Ms. Jarrett for the Administration’s support of women’s health and expressed our excitement that starting this August women will have free preventive care that includes contraceptive services no matter where she works.

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Why I Support the Health Care Law

This time of year, it’s impossible to avoid the wall-to-wall displays of colorful Easter candy, including Peeps of every color (those sugar coated marshmallow chicks and bunnies). I can’t look at Peeps without smiling, recalling one of my mentors, an actor and teacher at a theater near where I grew up who nearly lived on sweets. Peeps were among her favorites. She was cheerful and comforting and played a big role in supporting my emerging self-confidence and drive for social justice work.

When I went home to attend her funeral in 2009, the sense of loss I felt was compounded by the tragedy that surrounded her death. She had delayed seeking health care when she first thought something was wrong, because it was just too expensive. Though she was a unique spirit, it turned out that my mentor couldn’t buck some troubling trends — that women are more likely than men to forgo needed health care, including preventive care, due to cost; that women report more difficulty paying medical bills than men; and that women are more likely than men to be underinsured. It also turned out that she was right when she suspected something was wrong. But, since she couldn’t afford care, she ignored the signs of colon cancer, which took her life in just about a year. She was only 46 years old.

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Mission Accomplished With Komen: Now It's Time to Save Birth Control Coverage!

Last week, NCJW activists spoke out in huge numbers through emails, letters to the editor, social media — using just about every avenue available — to let Susan G. Komen for the Cure know that defunding Planned Parenthood was wrong. Within a matter of days, Komen reversed their policy and said that they would not disqualify Planned Parenthood for funding for critical breast cancer screenings and care.

Believe me — quick victories like this are few and far between! But my 30 years with NCJW has taught me that whenever we have had a victory, it has been the result of the same unified, persistent action as the one directed at Komen last week.

Just a few weeks earlier, we had another big win! NCJW’s efforts — emails, letters to the editor, face-to-face meetings with decision makers, testimony, social media, and so on — paid off with the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS). On January 20, they announced that under the Affordable Care Act, the new health care law, birth control will be covered in all new insurance plans like all other critical preventive health services without out-of-pocket costs to the consumer. Furthermore, all employers must abide by this policy (except for pervasively religious employers like houses of worship).

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Taking the Violence Against Women Act to Higher Ground

by Emily Alfano, senior manager of government relations

Nearly two years ago, the National Council of Jewish Women launched Higher Ground, a campaign to end domestic violence by promoting women’s economic security. Higher Ground is an expression of NCJW’s unshakable commitment to ensuring that no woman ever has to choose between personal safety and financial stability. Now it’s time for Congress to again demonstrate its commitment to the victims and survivors of domestic violence, dating violence, sexual assault, and stalking by passing the Violence Against Women Act Reauthorization Act (S 1925).

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When we launched the Higher Ground campaign we heard from an NCJW leader who shared her experiences with domestic violence while she was volunteering at an abortion clinic: “One of the questions I had to ask when meeting with incoming patients was, ‘Are you in an abusive relationship?’  I was shocked that so many women answered yes, and outraged that in my more than 22 years of talking with women about unintended pregnancies, the prevalence of violence only seemed to increase. One woman, I remember, told me of how her boyfriend had been verbally abusive before she got pregnant. Now that she was pregnant, he now had become physically abusive. Her name was Michelle. She told me of how her boyfriend now punched her in the stomach repeatedly, and told her that she wasn’t worthy of being a mother, and that he would leave her if she didn’t get an abortion. When I asked why she stayed with a man who beat her, Michelle stated matter-of-factly that he paid the rent and that she would be out on the street if she left him.”

Stories like Michelle’s are still far too common.

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Reproductive Care Before Roe v. Wade

by Dr. Nilza Kallos, Miami, FL, NCJW Miami Section

Nilza KallosIt was a beautiful day in September, 1970. I was a young intern at Bryn Mawr Hospital in the exclusive Main Line suburb of Philadelphia, having recently graduated from medical school. I was called to the emergency room to admit to the hospital a 16 year-old girl from a rich Main Line family. Her problem was intractable nausea and vomiting. Even though during my work-up she told me that she had never had sexual intercourse, for sake of completeness I ordered a pregnancy test that was reported positive. When I confronted her with the result, she confessed having had unprotected sex and that having the baby was totally out of the question, since she was getting ready to become a “debutante.”

Abortion could only be performed at that time if the life of the woman were in danger, an exception which (rightfully) included high risk of suicide if confirmed by a psychiatrist. I called for a consult with a psychiatrist, who questioned the girl if she was depressed and would commit suicide without an abortion. She picked up on the clue and answered in the affirmative. Armed with the result of the consult, she had an uneventful abortion performed by an OB/GYN surgeon in the hospital’s operating room. She was discharged within a day without any complication.

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