Taking the Violence Against Women Act to Higher Ground
by Emily Alfano, senior manager of government relations
Nearly two years ago, the National Council of Jewish Women launched Higher Ground, a campaign to end domestic violence by promoting women’s economic security. Higher Ground is an expression of NCJW’s unshakable commitment to ensuring that no woman ever has to choose between personal safety and financial stability. Now it’s time for Congress to again demonstrate its commitment to the victims and survivors of domestic violence, dating violence, sexual assault, and stalking by passing the Violence Against Women Act Reauthorization Act (S 1925).
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When we launched the Higher Ground campaign we heard from an NCJW leader who shared her experiences with domestic violence while she was volunteering at an abortion clinic: “One of the questions I had to ask when meeting with incoming patients was, ‘Are you in an abusive relationship?’ I was shocked that so many women answered yes, and outraged that in my more than 22 years of talking with women about unintended pregnancies, the prevalence of violence only seemed to increase. One woman, I remember, told me of how her boyfriend had been verbally abusive before she got pregnant. Now that she was pregnant, he now had become physically abusive. Her name was Michelle. She told me of how her boyfriend now punched her in the stomach repeatedly, and told her that she wasn’t worthy of being a mother, and that he would leave her if she didn’t get an abortion. When I asked why she stayed with a man who beat her, Michelle stated matter-of-factly that he paid the rent and that she would be out on the street if she left him.”
Stories like Michelle’s are still far too common.





It was a beautiful day in September, 1970. I was a young intern at Bryn Mawr Hospital in the exclusive Main Line suburb of Philadelphia, having recently graduated from medical school. I was called to the emergency room to admit to the hospital a 16 year-old girl from a rich Main Line family. Her problem was intractable nausea and vomiting. Even though during my work-up she told me that she had never had sexual intercourse, for sake of completeness I ordered a pregnancy test that was reported positive. When I confronted her with the result, she confessed having had unprotected sex and that having the baby was totally out of the question, since she was getting ready to become a “debutante.”
We started at the National Press Club. The room buzzed with excitement. We knew the day held great opportunities to introduce ourselves, our organizations, and the communities we represent to senior members of the administration. But first, I had the honor of introducing our organization to a packed room of men and women who, like me, are committed to justice and equality.
Last week, the White House held a “Twitter Town Hall”– the first of its kind – and I got to attend! It was an amazing opportunity for me: I got to go to the White House for the first time, and I shook President Obama’s hand. (You can bet that everyone I know has heard me brag about that by now.) Not only that, I was able to hear the President of the United States answer questions about jobs, the federal budget, taxes, education, and the continuing impact of the housing collapse on families across the country. As a young person, it was wonderful to experience this kind of dialogue between Americans and our president, but it wasn’t just the questions that made this Town Hall exciting for me.

